As I write this, I am visiting Zhuhai, China, as a speaker at the HR Technology China conference. You might assume that being at an event like this, all discussions are about technology and the tools leaders need to make managing the people in an organization a smooth, seamless function. If so, you are only partially correct. One of the things I love about working to better the people-experience in an organization is that no matter what part of the world I visit, the main theme remains around the “human” side of things. Making connections between people remains a universal need.
I my short time here, I have learned that the Chinese are:
- Very proud people- From speaking with Liu Jiawen, the Vice Mayor of Zhuhai Municipal People’s Government to Hua Fuzhou, President of the China Association for Labour Studies, they communicate that the people of China, and specifically Zhuhai, are proud of their city and the culture it offers to it’s residents and visitors. I have never felt so welcome anywhere I’ve traveled.
- A hardworking people- The level of attention to every detail whether in a service role or in a thought leader role is the highest I’ve ever observed. It’s not just about being at someone’s service either. It’s the warmest feeling when people are working hard to ensure that you are comfortable and connecting.
- An innovative people- Everywhere I look, there are signs of innovation and creation. The Chinese are demonstrating their commitment to making their cities more accessible as well as more sustainable. In addition, they are focused on improving the technologies that keep the new ideas developing.
All of these things are important for any country, or organization, to grow and remain relevant.
Elements of an Effective Coaching Relationship:
The common thread I see from the pride, hard work and innovation is that there is constant coaching and reinforcement going on here. More junior workers are being trained to enhance their skills. They are taking cues and guidance from the more senior members of their team, and they are welcoming that coaching. That leads me to the conclusion that an effective coach is only as good as the level of change the coachee is willing to accept.
I’ve written about coaching in the past from the perspective of what the coach can do to build strong skills or connect to the coachee. Whether it’s in Coaching Made Easy or in Creating A Coaching Culture and the related Rules of Engagement, the focus has been on the relationship between the coach and coachee. While some coaching relationships go on for years, others last only a short time or are for a specific reason. The coach and employee can negotiate the “why” of it all together. Coaching is a voluntary arrangement. In order to be coached, the employee has to want the relationship and it has to be “at will”.
I challenge you to think about your own team and the leaders that you work with today. Are you all focused on the pride you have while working together? Are you elevating the innovation in your organization? Finally, are you doing all you can to create that connection as people? If not, now is the time to adjust. Focusing on elements that bring meaning to the hard work you’re doing is the catalyst that will drive systematic, cultural change in your organization. In turn, your business outcomes will be truly transformed.